"How to
Survive Infidelity"
Escape the feelings of panic and move on to a new
life free from the pain of the past.
"Nine and a half
years of lies! How could I have been so gullible? So foolish? Suddenly
and without warning she told me about the string of affairs throughout
all of our time together. Some of the people involved I’d
met, some even their identity as well as the affairs themselves
had been kept secret. She told me all the salacious details. The
latest one was obviously good enough to leave me for and she did
just that. It was a Sunday morning. Calmly and quietly she packed
a bag and walked out the door and up the road."
Dear Friend,
If you have suffered the loss of a relationship through a betrayal
of trust, suffered unfaithfulness, infidelity or adulterous behavior
by your cheating wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, you may
have begun a pattern of panic, stress and sadness that can lead
to a downwards spiral of depression that could end up destroying
whatís left of your life and hurting others around you.
You are likely to be in a cycle of depression, fear, worthlessness
and emotional pain. This is not a good position to be in.
If you'd like to know how to come to terms with what happened,
be able to move on positively and find ways to rebuild your life,
then this might be the most important website you'll ever read.
Here's why:
This is a practical forward thinking ëfirst aidí sort of book,
designed so that you can quickly digest the information and put
it to use.
Three Reasons why this book
can help you:
Reason one: I know that everything revealed in this book works because this is exactly what I did to recover and move on from my own sad and sorry tale.
Reason two: You'll read my story and learn exactly how I overcame
my troubles and moved on.
Reason three: Whatever the nature of your story, youíll find practical and useful tips, techniques and exercises that really do work.
Here is a summary of the benefits you receive
from reading this book
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 There are action exercises at the end of each chapter to work through some of the issues raised each chapter.
- You use the book as a workbook to guide you through your recovery.
What happened to me is recounted in some detail.
- You'll be able to apply each step to your own story.
Easy to read and digest - this is not a technical manual.
- You can read and get on with it straight away.
Not written by a psychologist.
- This is not a detached viewpoint - it actually happened to me.
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Let me explain.
This book has been written as proof that the tide can be turned
and gives practical no-nonsense steps to be followed to end that
cycle forever and begin a new positive fulfilling life with new
relationships uninfluenced by the trauma of the past.
This book was written to show that it is possible not only to move
on after the personal tragedy of betrayal and the end of a relationship,
but to also forgive and even to forget, to start new and better
relationships and most exciting of all, to do it all without delay.
I know that everything revealed in this book works because this
is exactly what I did to recover and move on from my own sad and
sorry tale. Whatever your story I know that you’ll find practical
and useful tips, techniques and exercises that really do work.
Warning!
This book is not suitable for anyone who does not want to let go
of the past. It is not for people who wish to re-live or wallow
in their misfortune, hardships or mistakes.
Here we do not dwell on the past or try to discover reasons for
events and behavior. It is not a substitute for counseling or medical
advice. It is not about proportioning blame. It is not about revenge,
getting even or indulging oneself. Neither is it about denial or
somehow ignoring the facts. It is not about creating a fantasy world
where everything is fluffy and nice, neither is it about making
you so tough that nothing could ever harm you again.
We’ll not be going into the causes of infidelity, the so
called differences between men and women and neither does our remit
look at prevention - there are many books out on the market that
cover those things.
The techniques, scenarios and exercises described in this book
aim to lift you out of that dark place to a vantage point where
you feel free again to decide to start your life again (with or
without the offending partner).
What people say...
Do NOT buy any book on surviving infidelity
unless it meets the following 6 criteria:
There is a lot of unhelpful material out there about extramartital
affiars, cheating lovers and infidelity. I want to give you 6 points
you absolutely, positively must have if a book is going to help
you:
It must:
1: Be concerned with your feelings
- not cold facts about divorce law etc.
2: Be specific - so many books out there are
so general. Where they cover ëbreak-upsí they donít
spend much time on infidelity and its repercussions. Many are aimed
at reconciliation which is something that may happen after the period
of trauma that my book deals with.
3: Be based on a real first hand account.
Books that are actually on ëcheatingí are always written by psychologists
or counselors and draw on their many years of experience, but, they
tend to concentrate on the reasons for the infidelity, which although
interesting, especially for prevention, donít necessarily help.
My book is not concerned with ëwhyí (as there are good books that
deal with that) it is concerned with ëwhat nowí. Psychologists books
are often full of case studies that are interesting but not actually
very practical and certainly not written peer to peer.
4: Be able to be applied to you whether you are a man or a woman.
Books on recovery are often written by women for women. My book
is aimed at both sexes. The fact that I am male and willing to discuss
openly and honestly what happened to me allows the book to be marketed
more easily at men who suffer in silence. There is a hidden iceberg
of female infidelity out there and yet the ëmediaí lead us to believe
it is only men who cheat. The sort of feelings involved are embarrassing,
especially so for men. Women are often more able to discuss such
feelings with their friends. Men do not. Men who have been cheated
on can feel the additional loss of status or manliness in these
situations. This is the only book that caters for this.
5: Not be about revenge or 'getting even'
these sort of things are not constructive and will not help you.
6: Not waste you time looking for 'reasons'
for the affair. This books is about looking forward
and moving on, not looking back. Neither do you want a 'pink and
fluffy' book that panders to your crisis.
What price can you put of freedom from sadness?
This
book will save you weeks, months or even years of missed opportunities.
Why wait all that time before beginning the journey to a new life,
free from the pain of the past?
Why not start now. Let this book guide you.
In summary, here's what you get:
94 page book containing these chapters:
About 'the Story'
The Revelations That Turned My World Upside Down
The Symptoms of Loss and Betrayal
The Worst Case Scenario
Time to Start Thinking Positively
Positive Action
The Miracle of Self Talk
Re-writing the Past for the
Vision for A New You
Each chapter is followed by action exercises.
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You can't lose with my 100%,
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To your fantastic future,
Ayd Instone
P.S. Remember, today could be the first day of the rest of your
life.
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